halloween

Not quite forty years ago, back in the last century, I narrated a “Halloween Special” feature on the local CBS television affiliate station. For those of you who don’t have memories of this historic time, I have to explain that this was really before the New Age as we know it today.

Halloween is a very old Sabbat, but most people in recent times had only known it as a rather fun minor holiday marked by “Tricks or Treats,” various boy/girl games, dances and often a bonfire around which people told ghost stories. It was mostly a “kid’s holiday” and not a very big event for retail stores selling costumes and artificial pumpkins. Today, Halloween is second in importance only to Christmas (Yule) in the retail calendar.

What happened in the 1960s was the start of a renewal of awareness, and then interest, in the real historic and cultural meaning of Halloween. Alongside this, the Celtic, Pagan and Wiccan cultural and spiritual heritage were being remembered and practiced. These individual people and families were generally found in isolated communities in the British Isles, Ireland and the eastern United States.

These memories and continued practices became the source for much scholarly writing. Eventually, these formed the textbook basis for many new books on Celtic folklore and the renewed “Old Religion” that we mostly call Wicca today.

But memories are more than fodder for scholars and our modern Celtic Pagan revivalists. Memories involve “associations,” or the “correspondences,” favored in the terminology of ceremonial magicians. All holidays have such associated memories, and those of religious holidays (Wiccan and Pagan Sabbats in particular) are triggers to important myths and celebrations including functions of religious worship.

Each of the eight sabbats of Wicca and Paganism tell of particular myths that form part of an eight-spoked Wheel of Life, making up the entire cycle of seasons of the agricultural year.

But those related to Halloween speak even more directly, because they are intended to trigger memories of our ancestors — those who came before, and upon whose very bones we walk and live today. These are the “ghosts” to whom we make offerings of food and drink, else they may play “tricks” upon us in vengeance for our lack of respect. Such stories of “trick or treat” are ways that children are taught adult manners, like “Be good, or the ‘boogey man’ will get you!” Adults know how to be “good” without fear of the boogey man, but learning starts when we are children and includes ways to access the heritage of all who have gone before.

Halloween was also a time “between times” in the Celtic year — when the harvest had been completed, the cattle brought home from summer grazing to winter barns and the harshness of winter had yet to start. This was a time when maturing boys and girls could meet one another in the social events that brought people together from the surrounding rural area. Dances and games (like bobbing for apples) initiated opportunities for physical contact, starting the cycle of life all over again.

Halloween marked the ending of the cycle, and of its new beginning — hence it was the official start of the New Year. And for the Celtic world, the new day started the evening of the day before; hence, “All Hallow’s Eve” was the real time to celebrate new beginnings, remember and honor the past and contributions to the world of the present, just as we will contribute to the world of tomorrow.

Too often we fail to honor the past, and to learn from it, in our modern world where most of us are separated from the agricultural years and the visible cycles of Nature. The celebrations, and indeed the rituals, of the Sabbat remind us of these important memories and restore the essential awareness of the natural world.

Of equal importance is the awareness of the responsibilities each of us has for the world of tomorrow. What we do today is “tomorrow’s history,” and we have a deep responsibility to make it right. Ask yourselves how you want our descendants to read the history we are making today, and live accordingly. Responsible actions cannot be passed on to others — each of us must play an essential role in making the world a better place for our children, and their children, forever and ever.

Blessed Halloween!

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Make it a Valentine's Day to Remember

Anyone can buy a box of chocolates or a bunch of flowers, and as nice as the classic Valentine's gifts are, they're hardly what you'd call thoughtful or imaginative. If you want to make your gift truly unique, it's time to start getting personal…

Photos are always a good gift idea. Pick out your favourite picture of the two of you together, choose a fabulous frame, and you have a thoughtful, personal gift which your loved one will be able to keep forever. If you have the time, you can even put together an entire album's worth, and personalise it with anything you like, whether it be short messages to your loved one, poems or the lyrics of "your" song. Now that has to be better than a box of Quality Street!

Or how about a memory box? Here's how it works: you buy a pretty, handmade box, you personalise it in any way you like - and then you fill it to the brim with anything that brings back memories: the ticket stubs from the first movie you saw together, cocktail favours from a memorable holiday, a recording of your favourite song… Be as inventive as you like, and then watch the smile on your partner's face as they unpack it all!

Even roses can be personalised to great effect (if you come to the right place, that is!). A dozen red roses are a Valentine's Day tradition: a dozen of the same fresh roses, all carrying your own message, photo or name on their petals is something truly different - and truly romantic. And if roses don't make enough of a statement for you, why not send an entire tree, with a personalised tag?

The most thoughtful gifts aren't always the most expensive: they're the gifts that show you've really taken time to think about the person you're buying for. No matter what you choose, then, make sure it means something - and make sure it's memorable.

And speaking of memorable…

Handmade gifts always work well on Valentine's: they shout out "quality" and thoughtfulness, and they have the added benefit of letting your loved one know you've given them something absolutely unique. Luckily, you don't always have to hand-make them yourself, though: this beautiful glass heart necklace is handmade by professionals, so you don't have to spoil your gift with the "Blue Peter effect!"!

And the final tip to make sure your Valentine's Day is memorable? Don't take it too seriously. It's supposed to be a fun day for you and your loved one, so relax, enjoy it, and put a smile on each other's faces with a light-hearted gift such as an "Under New Management" t-shirt for the men, or personalised "Mr and Mrs. "T-shirts.

Enjoy your day!

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Business Law - Starting A Business - General Questions

What are s corporations?


An S Corporation ("S Corp.") is an ordinary business corporation that has elected to be taxed under Subchapter C of the Internal Revenue Code. It is not taxed on its earnings as a corporation, but instead its earnings are passed through to its shareholders for tax purposes.

However, an S Corp. has certain limits on the number of shareholders it may have and who may be shareholders, is limited to one class of stock and has to operate under a group of other rules.

S Corps have the following advantages:

Losses can be passed on to the investors,

Two levels of taxation can often be avoided,

There are no accumulated earnings tax, and

There is limited liability protection.

Conversely, the S Corp. suffers from the following drawbacks:

At-risk limitation, basis limitation on losses, passive loss limitations and investment interest limitations are all in effect,

Individual alternative minimum tax consequences may arise, and

The S Corp. may not be brought forward in a public offering to raise capital.

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Business Law - Starting A Business - General Questions

What is a sole proprietorship?

A sole proprietorship is you doing business as yourself, even if you use a fictions name. It is simple, but affords no asset protection. Anything you do in business as a sole proprietorship -- or an employee of yours does -- is your personal liability and this exposes your assets to liability.

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Business Law - Starting A Business - General Questions

What is the correct way to make sure that the business name we choose is not taken or infringing on someone else's name?

That's an increasingly difficult problem as with the Internet even local businesses may harbor (or assert) international goals.

Some quick things that might show you that the name is "taken" or that you'd be courting obvious trouble:

(1) check with your state's secretary of state's office and see if there is any other corporation wth a name that is identical or close that is incorporated in or qualified to do business there;

(2) check to see if there is any registered federal trademak that is close; go to http://www.uspto.gov or any state trademark;

(3) do an Internet business search for that name in business directories like http://www.InfoSpace.com or http://www.InfoUSA or http://www.bigyellow.com;

(4) do an internet search of the proposed name in Google.com and other good search engines;

(5) check to see if someone has taken the name as an Internet domain name, using http://www.register.com.

Then assuming the name looks clear, be sure to get a trademark registration filed as soon as you can.

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Business Law - Starting A Business Center

Business Law - Starting A Business

Depending on your state law, most businesses that operate under a fictitious name are required to complete a fictitious business name statement, publish the statement in a newspaper of general circulation, and then record this information with the County Recorder where the business is located. Corporations are generally exempt, as are businesses that use the individual proprietor's own name. If you are "doing business as" (d/b/a), generally you need to comply with fictitious business name rules.

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Family Law - Child Custody - General Child Custody Questions

My ex does not deliver our teenage son at the scheduled times/days. How do I go about enforcing the schedule as worked out in the court degree?

One approach is to have an attorney send a "lawyer's letter" on your behalf to the dad explaining that dad doesn't get to decide when you see the boy; the court does. This provides a little muscle to show you are serious and that you've gotten a lawyer involved. If the ex is reasonable, he/she may think twice. If dad doesn't show up, the attorney can file a motion for contempt, asking for attorney fees and costs as a sanction.

Also, each time dad doesn't deliver the boy, call the police and ask them to accompany you to the house to get the boy. (Take a certified copy of the visitation order.)

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